Why Christians Need Fellowship
Dale A. Robbins
Fellowship comes from the Greek word, KOINONIA, which means to
share in common. Christian fellowship is more than attending Church it is
assimilating into the body of believers, becoming one in
worshipping, loving, caring and sharing.
According to the scripture, fellowship is not an optional matter for
believers. It says, if walk in the light [in fellowship with God]... this causes us
to have fellowship with one another. And from the outcome of this fellowship,
the blood of Jesus, His Son, cleanses us from all sin (1 John 1:7).
The Body Needs Proper Blood Circulation
What does fellowship with the brethren have to do with cleansing us
from sin? As we know, the Bible says the life is in the blood (Lev. 17:11).
This is a fact, both biologically and spiritually. The blood in your body is a cleansing
agent which purges the toxins and bacteria in our system, and supplies oxygen to vital
areas necessary for our survival. Each minute, your heart pumps and circulates blood
through miles of inter-connected veins and arteries, passing through the kidneys for
filtering, and back into the same circulating cycle. However, in the event that a part of
your body were to be severed from the flow of blood, the absence of blood circulation
would cause that part to become infected it would develop gangrene and would die.
Survival is not possible without continual circulation of the blood.
So it is within the body of Christ, the Church (1 Cor. 12:27). For
the blood of Jesus Christ to have its continual cleansing effect over our sins, we must
remain attached to Christs body. If we sever fellowship with His body, we
risk cutting off the circulation of the cleansing blood!
Keep in mind, salvation is based on faith, and is not
earned by performing works such as attending Church (Eph. 2:8-9). But
fellowship with Christs body, the church, is critical in helping to sustain your
faith by providing ministry, encouragement, and an atmosphere of spiritual
cleansing and growth.
Our relationship with Jesus Christ is obviously the basis for the
forgiveness of our sins, but the Bible indicates that we cannot have a proper relationship
with Christ without a proper relationship with His body. For instance, the scriptures
indicate that our worship to God is unacceptable unless we make things right with our
brethren. Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that
your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and
go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift
Fellowship is the Practice of Loving the Brethren
Not only does the Bible say that fellowship is the
evidence of walking in the light (1 John 1:7), but it also says that loving the
brethren is evidence of that walk. He who loves his brother abides in the
light, and there is no cause for stumbling in him (1 John 2:10). This shows that
there is a strong, inseparable relationship between fellowship and
loving the brethren. Consequently, it appears that fellowship is
intended to be the practice of loving the brethren, which helps keep us in a right
relationship with Christ so that His shed blood can continue its full cleansing effect!
Many passages of the Bible confirm that love toward the
brethren is proof of our salvation. We know that we have passed from death
unto life, because we love the brethren... (1 John 3:14). In essence, we need
brethren to have a right relationship with God. We are able to see our relationship with
God from the reflection of our relationship with our brothers and sisters in Christ.
...for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom
he has not seen? (1 John 4:20).
Fellowship with the brethren is an exercise of love bringing
us toward spiritual maturity. Your relationship with the brethren is the
barometer that measures your spiritual temperature. Your degree of love toward the
brethren is the gauge that shows our love for God. ...If we love one another, God
abides in us, and His love has been perfected in us (1 John 4:12).
Fellowship with the body of Christ is where love is tested and
proven. It is the opportunity to learn how to love one another it is Gods
great classroom of the development of Christian character. We are benefited by both, the
strengths and weaknesses of the fellowship. The mature ones help to strengthen and
encourage us, while the weaknesses in the less mature give us the opportunity to practice
to test our spiritual growth in such characteristics as patience, long-suffering,
gentleness, meekness, etc. (All spiritual virtues must be challenged and tested to bring
At some time you may meet a few rude, offensive, immature believers
in the body. They need someone like you to show them love and patience (so theyll
grow up), and you need them in order to practice and develop your love for the brethren. When
you can remain loving and steadfast, even if brothers say negative things about you, let
you down, or do offensive things, your love is being perfected youre growing
up as a Christian and becoming more like Christ!
Rejecting Fellowship Leads away from God
How much much love do you have for your brethren? The Bible says
that were supposed to be ready to lay down our life for our brothers. But do you
suppose you would really lay down your life for them if youre not willing to even
come together with them a few times a week for worship? By this we know love,
because He laid down His life for us. And we also ought to lay down our lives for the
brethren (1 John 3:16).
Jesus expressed that we must be committed to the love of the
brethren in the same way that He was. He stated that this love toward the brethren was the
necessary evidence to prove our authenticity as Christians to the world. A new
commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also
love one another. By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love
for one another (John 13:34-35).
It is essential for every believer to be an active part of a
Christian fellowship. Willful rejection of fellowship is evidence of not walking
in the light. A famous preacher once said show me a professing Christian who seldom
attends Church, and Ill show you a backslider who needs to get their heart right
All through the New Testament, Jesus shows us that He takes
personally, how we relate to His body. Our love, expressions of kindness, and ministry to
any of our brothers and sisters in Christ are received as though they were done unto the
Lord, Himself. ...inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren,
you did it to Me. (Matthew 25:40). Therefore, would we refuse to gather with Jesus
when the opportunity is given? If we refuse to gather with our brethren, we have, in
reality, refused to gather with Jesus. For where two or three are gathered together
in My name, I am there in the midst of them (Matthew 18:20).
Fellowship with the body of Christ is not just an option,
but is critical to our continued survival as Christians. We need the preaching
and teaching from Gods Word, the atmosphere of worship and praise, the encouragement
which we draw from our brethren, the opportunities of Christian service, and we need the
opportunity to practice love toward other Christians.
Get involved and stay in faithful fellowship with the body of
Christ! Dont run off if something disappoints you or you get your feelings hurt
this only demonstrates immaturity and places you in further danger of losing out
If you alienate yourself from fellowship, you will restrict the
life-giving blood flow of the body of Christ, and will be regressing down a path that
leads away from God.
And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching. For if we sin willfully after we have received the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins (Heb. 10:24-26).
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